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Is my husband gay? Is my wife a lesbian?
You’ve had suspicions that it’s true. There are red flags that literally millions of Straight Spouses experience: a lack of interest in having sex with you, watching gay porn, suspicious phone calls, unexplained absences, strange financial expenses. Once you suspect or realize your spouse is not straight, it can blind side you.
I’m not Gay!
Sometimes a gay husbands or lesbian wives will come out of the closet voluntarily. That can be difficult enough for a Straight Spouse. But sometimes, even if you have solid evidence of their same-sex attraction or activities, some LGBT spouses cannot, or will not admit they’re gay. They choose to stay on the down-low; many having constructed a world of covert sexual practices. Their denial can make it seem impossible for you to find clarity and make any decision on how to move forward.
We have many Straight Spouses whose husband or wife has revealed their opposite gender identity. Although Transgenderism is very unique, you still have the same challenges as all Straight Spouses. We are no strangers to your situation. We’re here to support you 100%
Bisexuality is not a free pass to cheat on one's spouse. You need to talk to others about your hopes, fears and options. We’re here for you.
Shock, Anger, Sadness
The truth can be shocking. You feel betrayed and offended. Often, family, friends and therapists simply can’t relate. You’re left feeling alone, confused and powerless.
Where can you go for help?
Right here! The Straight Spouse Network is made up of volunteers who have been partners of gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender mates. Groups are All Inclusive. We understand how painful this is for you. Our goal is to help you to make sense of your situation by providing personal, confidential support, information and insights. You will no longer feel you’re alone in this.
EMAIL OR CALL FOR SUPPORT NOW
Only for Straight Spouses looking for support: Email us by filling out our confidential contact form (blue button below). Or, call 773/413-8213. Your call or email will be processed within 48 hours. A Triage representative will respond to your request and give you information on the Straight Spouse Network Group Facilitator or Support Contact nearest you. Any communication with us will be strictly confidential.
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For interviews or media proposals of any kind: interviews, submissions by authors, writers; proposals from video or film makers, or for finding a qualified Straight Spouse Network Speaker to take part in your event or presentation, contact our Communications Director HERE.