WELCOME TO THE STRAIGHT SPOUSE NETWORK.
Is my husband gay? Is my wife a lesbian?
You’ve had suspicions. You’re pretty sure, or are positive, that it’s true. You may have caught your wife with another woman, or found gay-porn on your husband’s computer. There are countless red flags that literally millions of straight spouses see; lack of interest in having sex with you, suspicious phone calls, unexplained absences - it can be an endless list. It can blind side you.
I’m not gay!
Sometimes they come out of the closet voluntarily. But some refuse to admit they’re gay, even with solid evidence of their same-sex attraction. They choose to stay on the down-low; having constructed a world of covert sexual behaviors. Their denial can make it seem impossible for you to break free.
Shock, Anger and Sadness
You feel betrayed and are deeply affected. Often, family, friends and therapists simply can’t relate.
Where can you go for help?
Right here! We’ve been partners of gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender mates. We understand how painful and confusing this is for you. We provide personal, confidential support, information and insight to straight husbands and wives.
Support is a phone call or email away
call us at (201) 825-7763, or send us an email using our contact form.Immediate Support Options
Any communication with us will be strictly confidential. Calls and emails go directly to our Executive Director, Kathy Callori, who returns calls and emails within 24 to 48 hours.