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		<title>Hindsight is So Clear</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 21:44:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[when the facts were irrefutable, I found the Straight Spouse Network (www.straightspouse.org). And it saved my sanity. I wasn’t alone! This had happened to thousands and thousands of other people, and there were peers out there who had my back, who made me KNOW it wasn’t ME.

Yes, hindsight is so clear. And help is right there.when the facts were irrefutable, I found the Straight Spouse Network (www.straightspouse.org). And it saved my sanity. I wasn’t alone! This had happened to thousands and thousands of other people, and there were peers out there who had my back, who made me KNOW it wasn’t ME.

Yes, hindsight is so clear. And help is right there.]]></description>
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		<title>How Does the Prop 8 Ruling Affect Straight Spouses of Gay People?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 19:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You can read all about the legal decision in California, upholding gay marriage, and overturning the referendum against it. There's very little written or spoken about how we straight spouses and straight partners are affected. These realities haven't come about in our lives BECAUSE of gay marriage. They're already there, consequences of our “one man-one woman marriages” which were also “one gay-one straight marriages”.]]></description>
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		<title>Does He Or Doesn&#8217;t He?  Gay Husbands and Cyber Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 03:17:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You found the porn on the computer and were told "I don't know how that got there". Let's look at what is possible with technology, to put your mind at rest - or to confirm your suspicions.]]></description>
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		<title>Pretzel Logic</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 03:18:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The term Pretzel Logic describes a twisted reasoning that always brings us back to the same unresolved place, where we are the only loose end if we do not subscribe to the apparent logic before us. The end result is that we ourselves become twisted, and have a much more difficult time with our own recovery.]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Ask Don&#8217;t Tell: Lt. Choi Discharged</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 19:06:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[While Lt Choi and others who serve honorably are required to be discharged from military service if they disclose that they are homosexual, or are discovered to be homosexual, there are plenty of straight spouses who are married to gay people who are still active in the military. ]]></description>
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		<title>Dirty Little Secret</title>
		<link>http://www.straightspouse.org/blog/?p=745</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 17:46:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week I am so sad and so tired.  Tired of being a Dirty Little Secret. What's my secret and my crime? Falling in love and marrying a gay man.]]></description>
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		<title>Friends, Partners, Allies &#8211; We Need Your Help</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 21:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Straight Spouse Network in in the running for two huge grants, and we need votes to get them. We are especially asking our "gay allies" - those people and organizations who have supported SSN in the past, with monetary or in kind donations, or volunteer support.]]></description>
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		<title>Our Independence: Freedom to Help</title>
		<link>http://www.straightspouse.org/blog/?p=734</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 20:27:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Straight Spouse</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the straight spouse, a personal independence day can mean a lot of things.  It can mean remembering the day of discovery or disclosure, and marking all the milestones that have happened in between the darkness of deception and the sometimes blinding light of truth.  ]]></description>
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		<title>Vote for SSN to get $20,000 From Chase on Facebook!</title>
		<link>http://www.straightspouse.org/blog/?p=731</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 12:55:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Straight Spouse</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chase Community Giving is currently holding a contest on Facebook. They will share $5 million to 200 charities and the winners are based on the number of votes from Facebook members. The top 200 charities will win at least TWENTY THOUSAND DOLLARS!]]></description>
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		<title>Decide To Live &#8211; Honestly and Happily</title>
		<link>http://www.straightspouse.org/blog/?p=729</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2010 20:40:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Straight Spouse</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In time for Fathers' Day and with some of the struggles straight spouses face at this time, we were happy to come across a commentary by Ben Stein on CBS.  The message quite simply is this: Be yourself, and do what makes you happy.]]></description>
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