Monthly Archives: August 2010

Hindsight is So Clear

when the facts were irrefutable, I found the Straight Spouse Network (www.straightspouse.org). And it saved my sanity. I wasn’t alone! This had happened to thousands and thousands of other people, and there were peers out there who had my back, who made me KNOW it wasn’t ME.

Yes, hindsight is so clear. And help is right there.when the facts were irrefutable, I found the Straight Spouse Network (www.straightspouse.org). And it saved my sanity. I wasn’t alone! This had happened to thousands and thousands of other people, and there were peers out there who had my back, who made me KNOW it wasn’t ME.

Yes, hindsight is so clear. And help is right there. Continue reading

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How Does the Prop 8 Ruling Affect Straight Spouses of Gay People?

You can read all about the legal decision in California, upholding gay marriage, and overturning the referendum against it. There’s very little written or spoken about how we straight spouses and straight partners are affected. These realities haven’t come about in our lives BECAUSE of gay marriage. They’re already there, consequences of our “one man-one woman marriages” which were also “one gay-one straight marriages”. Continue reading

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Does He Or Doesn’t He? Gay Husbands and Cyber Sex

You found the porn on the computer and were told “I don’t know how that got there”. Let’s look at what is possible with technology, to put your mind at rest – or to confirm your suspicions. Continue reading

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