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How to Come Out to Your Husband or Wife

Straight spouses are entitled to know if their husband or wife is being unfaithful to them with a same sex partner.  It also is helpful for them to know if a gay husband or lesbian wife is unsure of their … Continue reading

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Health, Wellness, Women and the Down Low

The attention that is paid to straight spouses of closeted homosexuals is often scant, or only given in response to other problems surrounding the painful experience of discovering such deception. One of the problems that appears to be getting recognition currently is the prevalence of AIDS among African American women between the ages of 25 and 34. AIDS is the number one killer of women in this group. Continue reading

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The Straight Up Truth About the Down Low – Tell It!

The phenomenon known as the “down low” has received some well deserved attention in recent weeks. Television spots and articles are highlighting the publication of Joy Marie’s book “The Straight-Up Truth About the Down-Low: Women Share Their Stories of Betrayal, Pain and Survival”. This book is a supportive resource for women whose husbands and partners are having sex on the down low- acting as heterosexuals by day but having sex with men at night. It is a very personal and thorough discussion of a painful experience that is not spoken of too often. On her website, readers share their stories. They are sadly familiar to anyone who has networked with a support group.
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