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There are a wide variety of resources available, ranging from local support groups to on-line groups to extensive reading materials.

Online Groups

We have links to an extensive range of online groups whose focus varies from ‘Wives of Bi/Gay Husbands’ to ‘Straight Monogamous Married Spouses (SMMS)’ to ‘Husbands Out to their Wives (HOW)’ and many, many more.

Recommended Reading

The Straight Spouse Network maintains an extensive library of online reading material.


We have a growing library of videos dealing with the topic of coming out and the straight spouse, and also a number of video narratives done by straight spouses.

Other Online Resources

Other web sites that you may find of interest and/or help as you navigate your journey as a straight spouse.