This isn’t another post about how the Straight Spouse Network needs money. Well, we do need money. But there is one thing we need even more: people who are willing to help other people.
If you’ve learned a few things on your journey about coping, communicating, facing reality, and moving forward after disclosure or discovering a spouse is gay, we invite you to help others who are just beginning to deal with this. If the Straight Spouse Network has helped you, we need to to help others who now are facing the same dilemma of a husband or wife who is gay.
We need you to help no matter what your experience is: divorce, staying married, male, female, old, young. We are directly contacted by between 35-40 (5 – 7 per day) people every week from around the world who need our help. They contact us by filling out a web form or calling us directly. Each one has a different story. We have people in place who help them to find someone local to them, a face to face group, or a person who they can talk to in detail. And that is where you come in. We’re asking you to be the next voice they hear that says “I understand. You are not alone” and really knows what they are saying. If you have gained some wisdom, self awareness, and strength through SSN, we are asking you to volunteer.
We aren’t asking you to start a face to face support group, although if you want to that would be great! There are many areas where these just aren’t available. Frequently, people connect in other ways – over the phone, email, or in one of our affiliated online support groups – and make plans then to actually meet if possible. We’re asking you to . to possibly be a contact for those looking for support especially when we have no F2F groups in the area. To do this go to our website at www.straightspouse.org. Click to the “How You Can Help” button and scroll to be a contact/facilitator. Fill in the application form and you will hear from us. The organization is always here to help you to do this with training and support.
If you don’t think you can do this, we have other jobs for you. We need help in our local groups with organizing events. Here are some of the other skills or services we need:
Professional printing for publications.
The Straight Spouse Network is only as effective as the people who are an active part of it. We’re the peer to peer support group for people who didn’t know they had peers, and thought they were alone. Share your strength, experience, and perspective. To volunteer, go to our website, look for that How You Can Help button at the top right of the home page, and follow the above instructions.